The word digest makes one think of that feeling of being full after a larger than normal meal. That lazy feeling your body goes through while all your enzymes are working overtime to process all the excess. It can be a very tiring feeling that can also affect your general mood and choices made during that time.
Now let’s look at it a bit differently. How about if we are talking about being full of all that happened in our head today. Perhaps you are going through health related or some challenging or emotionally draining circumstances in life, work related or in your personal life. Does this leave your head in the same shape as your stomach after overstimulation? I can vouch for that fact that this is exactly how I feel at the end of some days.
I recently started an experiment in my quest to find solutions and maybe learn a little more about myself in the process . I took a neon post-it note and placed it somewhere in my kitchen. It has nothing written on it. But it speaks to me. Each time I return home, I spot it, and say in my head ‘rest and digest’, ‘rest and digest’. It is my signal to sit and digest whatever the day held, but especially when all is not right in my world. Previously I would try to shove stuff off to the side but now I can see that that does not really serve us well. It layers up and becomes heavy, heavy on our heart, heavy on our mind. It steals our joy. It can lead to mindlessness as well. This new method allows for me to sit with my day and digest it, analyze what may have upset, angered, depressed, overwhelmed, or whatever other feeling I experienced during the day-to-day order of business. It allows for dissection, introspection, evaluation, navigation, creating a plan going forward, decisions to be thought out of any changes that I may want to make to help me going forward, general self analysis. It basically can take 15 mins, yet what it does is avoid just shelving it, or what’s worse, turning to other things to find that temporary satisfaction, which we all know does not help with the long term goals.
Perhaps you have heard this story before, yet I believe it bears repeating. Many years ago I suffered for decades with undiagnosed anxiety. I would have sporadic panic attacks and over the years I would end up at different doctors who would all tell me that they could not find anything wrong and would dismiss me. They got so severe that they started to interfere with my life in all sorts of ways. The longer it lasted, the more I started avoiding simple things that I had previously done with ease. It came to a crux one evening as I had an episode while making dinner. For the life of me, I still don’t know what the trigger was on that particular day, but I do remember in the middle of this I got so dizzy, I needed to lie down. After two hours, I still could not stand up on my own, so off to the local hospital, thinking it may be heart related. On that lucky evening, the doctor in emergency happened to be an anesthesiologist. He injected a gel in the back of my neck, essentially freezing my vagus nerve. I felt immediate relief. He then explained the physiology of this nerve and its use and how it relates to anxiety. It was like finding a missing piece of a long unsolved puzzle that had sat unfinished for years. It gave me my independence back along with tools to use whenever the unwelcome guest would appear in my head. It gave me back my joy.
So what I am basically telling you is that our brain is very similar to our stomach. When fed too much at once, especially emotionally triggering issues that we sometimes find ourselves in the middle of, both need time to ‘Rest and Digest’ We all are going through so much at any given time, that sometimes laughter is the only cure. It gives the brain a shot of healthy. Practices of heavy breathing, yoga, walking or running are all good examples of tools we can use to digest during our day, helping us to rest during our evening.
Food for thought or thought for food as I like to think of it.